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Life Support Is Failing: The Medicaid Crisis Already Affects Everyone You Know

For many adults with developmental disabilities, parents are more than just family—they are caregivers, advocates, and the foundation of daily life. But what happens when they’re gone?For siblings, extended family, and close friends stepping into a caregiving role, this transition can feel overwhelming. Questions about housing, daily support, medical care, and long-term planning can arise all at once. Unfortunately, many families find themselves navigating this process during a crisis, without clear guidance on where to turn.If you are in this situation—or know someone who is—you are not alone. There are resources and support systems available to help.<h3> </h3><figure id="figure-355ck5b86im8d984l6"><img id="355ck5b86im8d984l6" src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/2185442410/photo/sister-and-brother-with-autism.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=gZBZUu92csTRMYjWgT8bEgO6Ln-2qg0XlsVJUuVSy4k=" alt="Sister and brother with Autism" title="Sister and brother with Autism" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="null" data-positiony="null" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/2185442410/photo/sister-and-brother-with-autism.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=gZBZUu92csTRMYjWgT8bEgO6Ln-2qg0XlsVJUuVSy4k=" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;"></figure><h3> The Biggest Challenges Families Face</h3> When a parent who has been the primary caregiver passes away or becomes unable to provide care, their adult child may suddenly face:🔹 Uncertainty about where to live – Can they stay in the family home? If not, what are the options? 🔹 Loss of daily support – Who will assist with personal care, transportation, and decision-making? 🔹 Changes in services and benefits – How do they maintain Medicaid services and other supports? 🔹 The emotional impact of losing their strongest advocate – Who will step in to help navigate the system?These challenges can feel overwhelming, especially when combined with the grief and stress of losing a loved one. The good news is that there are systems in place to help individuals maintain stability and independence—but knowing how to access them is key.&nbsp;<figure id="figure-8bs3hrycjm8d987kp"><img id="8bs3hrycjm8d987kp" src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/2173223092/photo/african-american-seniors-man-in-wheelchair-play-bocce-ball.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=tPaKIbv0qPtDuoTXtPtGoR2zcwlRt_hKKKmq6RauY60=" alt="African-American seniors, man in wheelchair play bocce ball" title="African-American seniors, man in wheelchair play bocce ball" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="null" data-positiony="null" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/2173223092/photo/african-american-seniors-man-in-wheelchair-play-bocce-ball.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=tPaKIbv0qPtDuoTXtPtGoR2zcwlRt_hKKKmq6RauY60=" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;"></figure><h3> Understanding the Supports for Community Living (SCL) Waiver</h3> One of the most important resources available in Kentucky is the Supports for Community Living (SCL) waiver. This program provides services that help adults with intellectual and developmental disabilities live as independently as possible.Some of the key services available through the SCL waiver include: ✅ Help with daily living tasks (bathing, dressing, meal preparation) ✅ Caregiver support and personal assistance ✅ Residential options and housing support ✅ Day programs and job trainingFor individuals whose parents have passed away or can no longer provide care, the SCL waiver’s emergency criteria may allow them to qualify for immediate services—ensuring they don’t lose access to the care and stability they need.<h3> </h3><figure id="figure-e6gub4tckm8d98dfx"><img id="e6gub4tckm8d98dfx" src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/1405303813/photo/portrait-of-father-and-psychomotor-intellectual-disability-daughter-sitting-on-the-sofa-at.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=7PxqfEOL6_egxBr-SCglw6Ke8HS3PiFQFpYfKeOGgYI=" alt="Portrait of father and psychomotor Intellectual disability daughter sitting on the sofa at home" title="Portrait of father and psychomotor Intellectual disability daughter sitting on the sofa at home" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="null" data-positiony="null" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/1405303813/photo/portrait-of-father-and-psychomotor-intellectual-disability-daughter-sitting-on-the-sofa-at.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=7PxqfEOL6_egxBr-SCglw6Ke8HS3PiFQFpYfKeOGgYI=" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;"></figure><h3> Where to Start: Next Steps for Families</h3> If you are stepping in to support a loved one after a parent’s passing, here are some first steps to consider:📌 Confirm Medicaid Eligibility &amp; Services – If they are not already receiving Medicaid waiver services, applying as soon as possible is crucial. The SCL waiver can help provide essential care.📌 Assess Housing &amp; Support Needs – Will they need in-home support, a caregiver, or a new living arrangement?📌 Connect with a Case Manager or Advocate – Navigating these systems can be complex. Working with an expert who understands self-direction and Medicaid waivers can make the process much easier.📌 Have Conversations About Their Wishes – If they are able to express their preferences, involving them in decisions about their future is important.Every family’s situation is unique, and there is no “one-size-fits-all” solution—but the key is to start early, ask for help, and take it one step at a time.<h3> </h3><figure id="figure-orkc8y2m4km8d98hbn"><img id="orkc8y2m4km8d98hbn" src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/2130791200/photo/adult-autistic-male-with-worried-expression.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=vRaA1fa3I18cQ4YL0foWmfFDxOPy41M6JRkPQVbUQuw=" alt="Adult autistic male with worried expression" title="Adult autistic male with worried expression" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="null" data-positiony="null" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/2130791200/photo/adult-autistic-male-with-worried-expression.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=vRaA1fa3I18cQ4YL0foWmfFDxOPy41M6JRkPQVbUQuw=" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;"></figure><h3> You Don’t Have to Navigate This Alone</h3>If you’re trying to figure out what comes next for a loved one with a developmental disability, you don’t have to do it alone. I specialize in helping families navigate this transition—making sure your loved one gets the care, stability, and support they need.💬 <a data-mce-href="sharrisonconsulting.com" href="sharrisonconsulting.com">Schedule a free consultation today </a>to get personalized guidance and next steps. Click here to connect with me.Let’s take the next step—together.&nbsp; <figure id="figure-jv7k2tgbtcm8d8tcot"><img id="jv7k2tgbtcm8d8tcot" src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/12ZLeaBzix8OgLSpUXF98opcZ1n5WGdYO1J6XuZ0eVgL8LcZ8HR7kiyyzxYDL3RE.jpg" alt="" title="" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 1/1; object-position: undefined undefined;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="1:1" data-caption="" data-positionx="undefined" data-positiony="undefined" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/12ZLeaBzix8OgLSpUXF98opcZ1n5WGdYO1J6XuZ0eVgL8LcZ8HR7kiyyzxYDL3RE.jpg" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 1/1; object-position: undefined undefined;"></figure> &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;

“Our Parents Are Gone—Now What?” Navigating Life After a Parent for Adults with Developmental Disabilities

<h2>How Aging Parents and Siblings Can Find Support for Their Loved One Today</h2><h3> You’re exhausted—caring for your disabled loved one while your body reminds you that you’re not 40 anymore.</h3>&nbsp;The Medicaid waiver waitlist drags on, your to-do list never ends, and the disability care system you thought would help…doesn’t.&nbsp;You’re running on fumes, but you can’t stop—because no one else will step in.&nbsp;What happens when you can’t do it anymore?&nbsp;Your parents can’t care for your sibling anymore. Now what?&nbsp;Most families don't know—there's someone who can help figure this out.&nbsp;It's not a secret, but it feels like one. Here’s how:&nbsp;<figure id="figure-8806gc56e8m77yhhzw"><img id="8806gc56e8m77yhhzw" src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/1391247384/photo/mature-adult-female-sits-next-to-her-autistic-brother.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=VUV8cscv0z5_QQGOK1MlRVbUwQPp6Ykbw_nBcMdtzqo=" alt="Mature adult female sits next to her Autistic brother" title="Mature adult female sits next to her Autistic brother" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: undefined undefined;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="undefined" data-positiony="undefined" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/1391247384/photo/mature-adult-female-sits-next-to-her-autistic-brother.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=VUV8cscv0z5_QQGOK1MlRVbUwQPp6Ykbw_nBcMdtzqo=" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: undefined undefined;"></figure><h2>&nbsp;💡 3 Ways to Get Support—Without Waiting on the Waiver:</h2><h3> 1. Build Natural Supports and Use Community Resources:</h3> You shouldn’t have to carry the load alone. There are resources and people who can support you: ✔️ Invite family and friends to be part of your loved one’s support team ✔️ Caregiver relief programs from your local Area Development District ✔️ Join caregiver support groups to connect with others who understand your journeyCreating a strong support network can ease your burden—and help is closer than you think. <figure id="figure-7icignlj8m77yi9h4"><img id="7icignlj8m77yi9h4" src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/2166332466/photo/patient-knitting-lesson.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=LM1psaCaoVcUcODzg9qgx-UZ6zO-_VReY2F5rorrFDk=" alt="Patient Knitting Lesson" title="Patient Knitting Lesson" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="null" data-positiony="null" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/2166332466/photo/patient-knitting-lesson.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=LM1psaCaoVcUcODzg9qgx-UZ6zO-_VReY2F5rorrFDk=" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;"></figure><h3> 2. Explore Waiver Service Options (Even If You’ve Been Denied Before):</h3> If the primary caregiver is experiencing a physical or mental health decline, your family may qualify for waiver services—even if you were denied before or are on a waitlist.&nbsp;Waiver programs may help you: ✔️ Get respite care to prevent burnout ✔️ Access in-home care services - no group home required&nbsp; ✔️ Help your loved one choose who helps them and live their best life&nbsp;Don’t assume you’re ineligible— help may be available when your situation shifts.<figure id="figure-pgrgwygrhm77yif5c"><img id="pgrgwygrhm77yif5c" src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/639163366/photo/loving-family-daughters-with-down-syndrome-at-home.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=a6IfA6oN9G_HgTs4LcRsgkr1WnxJPmcx_2RnZ536qtk=" alt="Loving family, daughters with down syndrome, at home" title="Loving family, daughters with down syndrome, at home" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="null" data-positiony="null" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/639163366/photo/loving-family-daughters-with-down-syndrome-at-home.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=a6IfA6oN9G_HgTs4LcRsgkr1WnxJPmcx_2RnZ536qtk=" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;"></figure><h3>&nbsp; 3. Explore Private Pay Services Without Breaking the Bank:</h3> Private pay doesn’t have to mean out of reach. Affordable options exist, such as: ✔️ Disability day centers, some offering private pay rates as low as $12 per hour ✔️ Bartering services with local caregivers or community members ✔️ Live-in caregiver arrangements, offering room and board in exchange for support ✔️ Grants, such as the Hart Supported Living Grant, which helps fund in-home supportsThere are creative ways to find help without draining your savings.<figure id="figure-wqqckn8wghm77yhpu5"><img id="wqqckn8wghm77yhpu5" src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/1312864133/photo/autistic-man-and-caretaker.jpg?b=1&s=2048x2048&w=0&k=20&c=6f5I4g3AP8fiMwEqJJylMPQhF19W2qzuJ0GYmi_ZLyE=" alt="Autistic man and caretaker" title="Autistic man and caretaker" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionX="null" data-positionY="null" data-fullWidth="false"/></figure><h3>&nbsp; ❤️ You Deserve Help Today—Not ‘Someday’</h3>You’ve carried this weight for so long. It’s time to discover the options that can help you and your loved one today.<h3>Feeling Stuck? Need Support?&nbsp;</h3>Visit <a data-mce-href="sharrisonconsulting.com" href="sharrisonconsulting.com">sharrisonconsulting.com</a> to explore real solutions and resources available TODAY!&nbsp;

Out of Options and Exhausted?

<h3>How Do I Plan for My Adult Child with Disabilities?</h3> Planning for an adult child with disabilities involves four key steps:<ol><li>Exploring Medicaid waivers for in-home care and support services.</li><li>Choosing a housing option, whether in-home support, shared living,&nbsp; an independent setup, a group home or other options.&nbsp;</li><li>Setting up financial protections, such as a special needs trust.</li><li>Hiring and managing caregivers for long-term stability.</li></ol> For parents and siblings of adults with disabilities, planning for the future can feel overwhelming. Whether it's housing, Medicaid waivers, caregiver support, or long-term financial security, making the right choices requires clear guidance and a roadmap.<h3>Step 1: Understanding Long-Term Care Options</h3> Every family must decide how to structure care and independence for their adult child. Key questions to consider:Should we apply for Medicaid waiver services or continue private pay support? Is in-home care the best fit, or should we explore independent living options? How do we ensure financial security with a special needs trust?<figure id="figure-ors4j3xftm6v3lbo7"><img id="ors4j3xftm6v3lbo7" src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/1313401233/photo/adult-man-portrait-with-a-down-syndrome-photo-series.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=4s2237JQ9EuBK_vOwU3ui0YsyG1X5Jwy4KXtcv6mxhw=" alt="Adult Man Portrait with a Down Syndrome Photo Series" title="Adult Man Portrait with a Down Syndrome Photo Series" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: undefined undefined;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="undefined" data-positiony="undefined" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/1313401233/photo/adult-man-portrait-with-a-down-syndrome-photo-series.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=4s2237JQ9EuBK_vOwU3ui0YsyG1X5Jwy4KXtcv6mxhw=" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: undefined undefined;"></figure><h3> Step 2: Exploring Medicaid &amp; Waiver Services</h3> Many families of older adults with disabilites have never used government-funded disability services, but Medicaid waivers provide key benefits for the future including:✅ Personal Care Services – Help with daily living activities ✅ Respite Care – Giving family caregivers a break ✅ In-Home Support – Hiring caregivers through Medicaid ✅ Employment &amp; Day Programs – Support for independent work and activitiesIf a Medicaid waiver isn't currently an option, there are many other programs and services that&nbsp; can support your loved one.&nbsp;<figure id="figure-8yg7xj13wm6v3lgaq"><img id="8yg7xj13wm6v3lgaq" src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/182507376/photo/mothers-love.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=MCzwWqsWLzMWEENBtNobhGlvukz4wu0hAM690gbP3sE=" alt="Mothers love" title="Mothers love" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="null" data-positiony="null" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/182507376/photo/mothers-love.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=MCzwWqsWLzMWEENBtNobhGlvukz4wu0hAM690gbP3sE=" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;"></figure><h3>Step 3: Choosing Housing &amp; In-Home Care Options</h3> Many families consider group homes, but other living arrangements may provide more autonomy and personalized support:<ul><li>Building a Care Team – If your loved one rents or owns their home, or lives with you, you can build a care team to support them at home instead of a group home.&nbsp;</li><li>Shared Living Arrangements – You can match people with disabilities for co-housing, or offering free or reduced rent to a caregiver in exchange for support.&nbsp;</li><li>Supported Apartments – Renting or purchasing an accessible apartment with part-time paid caregiver support, and part time unpaid caregiver support.</li></ul><figure id="figure-sppap2iqtrm6v3lkil"><img id="sppap2iqtrm6v3lkil" src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/1345489338/photo/portrait-of-a-father-and-his-daughter-with-special-needs.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=tts5x5pfqnrDVQT6xyII6gnCN77BMVWNbddC1PXE8Qk=" alt="Portrait of a father and his daughter with special needs" title="Portrait of a father and his daughter with special needs" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="null" data-positiony="null" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/1345489338/photo/portrait-of-a-father-and-his-daughter-with-special-needs.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=tts5x5pfqnrDVQT6xyII6gnCN77BMVWNbddC1PXE8Qk=" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;"></figure><h3> Step 4: Financial &amp; Legal Planning</h3> A special needs trust ensures long-term financial security while protecting eligibility for government benefits. Families should also explore:Supported Decision-Making &amp; Guardianship &nbsp;– Choosing the right level of support Special Needs Trusts – Protects assets while maintaining eligibility for Medicaid and SSI.&nbsp;Social Security Disability (SSDI) &amp; Supplemental Security Income (SSI) – Maximizing benefits ABLE Accounts – Tax-free savings accounts for disability-related expenses <figure id="figure-bkown3ts0qm6v3td0d"><img id="bkown3ts0qm6v3td0d" src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/605982350/photo/young-als-patient-with-his-mom.jpg?b=1&s=2048x2048&w=0&k=20&c=myr078dL_3Nvd6_TxBBymp0mKKPj7vfziZHD5ZxDxDY=" alt="Young ALS patient with his mom" title="Young ALS patient with his mom" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: undefined undefined;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionX="undefined" data-positionY="undefined" data-fullWidth="false"/></figure><h3>Get Expert Guidance on Options for Your Child's Future</h3> Navigating care, housing, and financial decisions doesn’t have to be overwhelming. With the right support, families can create a personalized plan that ensures a secure, fulfilling future for their loved one.<a data-mce-href="sharrisonconsulting.com" href="sharrisonconsulting.com">📅 Explore support options here.</a>

Planning for an Adult Child with Disabilities: Future Care, Housing & Support Options

Hiring a caregiver is one of the most important decisions families make for their loved ones with disabilities. The right caregiver can provide stability, support, and peace of mind. But hiring the wrong person? That can lead to stress, turnover, and even safety concerns.Many families rush into hiring because they feel overwhelmed and desperate for help. Unfortunately, that’s when mistakes happen. Below are the biggest pitfalls families face when hiring a caregiver—and how to avoid them. <figure id="figure-v0zngh2jgrm6r4jwxa"><img id="v0zngh2jgrm6r4jwxa" src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/1400319359/photo/serious-mid-adult-female-lawyer-listens-to-unrecognizable-female-client.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=REJlFCu9WzBeCgUfcELvVoJbvp4m81bvSFDZjN4_W98=" alt="Serious mid adult female lawyer listens to unrecognizable female client" title="Serious mid adult female lawyer listens to unrecognizable female client" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: undefined undefined;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="undefined" data-positiony="undefined" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/1400319359/photo/serious-mid-adult-female-lawyer-listens-to-unrecognizable-female-client.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=REJlFCu9WzBeCgUfcELvVoJbvp4m81bvSFDZjN4_W98=" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: undefined undefined;"></figure><h3> Mistake #1: Rushing the Hiring Process</h3> When you’re overwhelmed and exhausted, it’s tempting to hire the first person who seems "good enough." But rushing the process often leads to poor hires, frequent turnover, and frustration.How to Avoid It: ✅ Take time to define the role—what hours, skills, and personality fit do you need? ✅ Create a detailed job description before posting a job. ✅ Conduct at least two interviews before making a decision. ✅ Trust your gut—if something feels off, keep looking. <figure id="figure-8vyc731tdm6r4k9wk"><img id="8vyc731tdm6r4k9wk" src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/2173223006/photo/senior-african-american-couple-on-walk-with-wheelchair.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=APoQTgkTroRzov22mqQXvkqGiYOfAKmpGpQiMi56ukU=" alt="Senior African-American couple on walk, with wheelchair" title="Senior African-American couple on walk, with wheelchair" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="null" data-positiony="null" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/2173223006/photo/senior-african-american-couple-on-walk-with-wheelchair.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=APoQTgkTroRzov22mqQXvkqGiYOfAKmpGpQiMi56ukU=" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;"></figure><h3> Mistake #2: Not Being Clear About Expectations</h3>A lot of hiring issues happen simply because families assume caregivers just know what to do. Without clear expectations, caregivers may take on too little (or too much), leading to burnout or disappointment.How to Avoid It: ✅ Write down specific responsibilities: What’s included in daily care? Any special training needed? ✅ Set a clear schedule—when do they start and finish each day? ✅ Be upfront about pay, benefits, and house rules before they start.<h3>&nbsp; Mistake #3: Failing to Check References and Backgrounds</h3> It’s tempting to skip this step, especially when you're in urgent need. But past behavior is the best predictor of future behavior. Families who don’t check references risk hiring someone unreliable—or worse, unsafe.How to Avoid It: ✅ Always call at least two previous employers or references. ✅ Run a background check (some states provide low-cost options). ✅ Ask references specific questions: “Would you hire this person again? Why or why not?” <figure id="figure-83xa5yx51m6r4kurf"><img id="83xa5yx51m6r4kurf" src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/1405303762/photo/father-and-psychomotor-intellectual-disability-daughter-having-breakfast-at-home.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=zoxGXtwSjzHCissvX0sHMVN5gz2NJYgd46R8PYny84c=" alt="Father and psychomotor Intellectual disability daughter having breakfast at home" title="Father and psychomotor Intellectual disability daughter having breakfast at home" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="null" data-positiony="null" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/1405303762/photo/father-and-psychomotor-intellectual-disability-daughter-having-breakfast-at-home.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=zoxGXtwSjzHCissvX0sHMVN5gz2NJYgd46R8PYny84c=" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;"></figure><h3> Mistake #4: Ignoring Red Flags in the Interview</h3> Not every caregiver is a good fit, and ignoring red flags can lead to problems down the road. If they show up late, avoid answering questions, or seem uninterested in the job, those are warning signs.How to Avoid It: ✅ Ask structured questions about their experience, problem-solving skills, and past challenges. ✅ Listen for inconsistencies in their answers. ✅ If they seem defensive, uninterested, or unwilling to answer questions, move on.<h3> </h3><figure id="figure-iuaefknukam6r4lacv"><img id="iuaefknukam6r4lacv" src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/184884267/photo/red-flag-warning-hurricane-storm-danger-of-dark-sea-clouds.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=6D811JW9rs15DmzK5QOmGsfEa9tXeTb-Q7pPFwEjlVQ=" alt="Red Flag Warning Hurricane Storm Danger of Dark Sea Clouds" title="Red Flag Warning Hurricane Storm Danger of Dark Sea Clouds" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="null" data-positiony="null" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/184884267/photo/red-flag-warning-hurricane-storm-danger-of-dark-sea-clouds.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=6D811JW9rs15DmzK5QOmGsfEa9tXeTb-Q7pPFwEjlVQ=" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;"></figure><h3> Mistake #5: Not Offering Competitive Pay and Benefits</h3> Families often struggle to find good caregivers because they aren’t offering enough pay to attract and keep the best talent. The reality? Caregiver shortages are real, and wages have increased.How to Avoid It: ✅ Research fair pay in your area—what’s the going rate for home care workers? ✅ Consider offering bonuses, paid time off, or mileage reimbursement. ✅ Think beyond pay—some caregivers value a consistent schedule, a positive work environment, and opportunities for training. <figure id="figure-7qn4msut10lm6r4lh1h"><img id="7qn4msut10lm6r4lh1h" src="https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1622186477895-f2af6a0f5a97?crop=entropy&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;fit=max&amp;fm=jpg&amp;ixid=M3wyNjI5NjF8MHwxfHNlYXJjaHwxfHxob3VybHklMjB3YWdlc3xlbnwwfHx8fDE3Mzg3MTI5NzN8MA&amp;ixlib=rb-4.0.3&amp;q=80&amp;w=1080" alt="silver and gold round coins in box" title="silver and gold round coins in box" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="null" data-positiony="null" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1622186477895-f2af6a0f5a97?crop=entropy&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;fit=max&amp;fm=jpg&amp;ixid=M3wyNjI5NjF8MHwxfHNlYXJjaHwxfHxob3VybHklMjB3YWdlc3xlbnwwfHx8fDE3Mzg3MTI5NzN8MA&amp;ixlib=rb-4.0.3&amp;q=80&amp;w=1080" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;"></figure><h3> Mistake #6: Not Considering Personality and Compatibility</h3> Just because someone has experience doesn’t mean they’re the right fit for your loved one. A caregiver's personality, communication style, and values matter just as much as their skills.How to Avoid It: ✅ Think about your loved one’s personality, routine, and preferences when hiring. ✅ Ask about the caregiver’s communication style—how do they handle challenges? ✅ If possible, schedule a trial shift to see how they interact.<h3>&nbsp; Mistake #7: Failing to Provide Proper Training and Support</h3> Many families assume caregivers will "figure it out" on their own, but every home and individual is different. Without proper training, caregivers may struggle, leading to frustration or quitting.How to Avoid It: ✅ Create a simple training plan with instructions on daily routines, medications, and emergency procedures. ✅ Provide ongoing feedback and check-ins—don’t just assume everything is fine. ✅ Treat caregivers like team members, not just employees—mutual respect goes a long way. <figure id="figure-i0np3yw4ahm6r4m4u5"><img id="i0np3yw4ahm6r4m4u5" src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/1266254217/photo/group-of-friends-taking-a-stroll-on-citys-street-in-summer-day.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=N2OuSU4ujpO0SztzdRPkiPnYtl11udB2b6u54sPvIWI=" alt="Group of friends taking a stroll on city's street in summer day" title="Group of friends taking a stroll on city's street in summer day" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="null" data-positiony="null" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/1266254217/photo/group-of-friends-taking-a-stroll-on-citys-street-in-summer-day.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=N2OuSU4ujpO0SztzdRPkiPnYtl11udB2b6u54sPvIWI=" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;"></figure><h3> Mistake #8: Not Having a Backup Plan</h3> Even the best caregivers get sick, take vacations, or leave unexpectedly. If you don’t have a backup plan, you could be left scrambling.How to Avoid It: ✅ Keep a list of backup caregivers (friends, family, or agency workers). ✅ Consider hiring a second caregiver for part-time support, so you always have coverage. ✅ Have an emergency plan in place in case of last-minute cancellations.<h3>&nbsp; Final Thoughts: A Good Hire Changes Everything</h3> Hiring a caregiver doesn’t have to be stressful, but it does take careful planning. Avoiding these mistakes will help you find a reliable, compassionate caregiver who truly fits your loved one’s needs.But if you’re still feeling overwhelmed, you don’t have to do this alone.👉 Need help hiring the right caregiver? Get step-by-step guidance to find, hire, and train caregivers—without the stress. <a data-mce-href="sharrisonconsulting.com" href="sharrisonconsulting.com">Click here to learn more.</a>

8 Costly Mistakes Families Make When Hiring a Caregiver (And How to Avoid Them)

<h2>It's hard to find care options for people with disabilities. </h2>If you're a parent or sibling of an adult with disabilities, you already know this all too well. The stress of planning for the future, navigating confusing systems, and making sure your loved one has the care they need can feel overwhelming.As time moves forward, so do the realities of aging. You may have thought, “I’ll figure this out later,” but now later has arrived. Whether it’s a recent health scare, the loss of a caregiver, or just the realization that you can’t do this forever, you’re at a point where action is necessary—but the options feel limited, the system feels impossible, and the road ahead feels unclear.That’s why I’m hosting the Future Unfiltered Listening Tour.<figure id="figure-uegp4k7trlm6qww9c9"><img id="uegp4k7trlm6qww9c9" src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/2185442370/photo/caretaker-and-sister-taking-care-of-her-middle-aged-brother-who-also-suffers-from-autism.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=QMq4FYPzxX5lH8ANezVSq52nPq8VKzG7laIW4H9tF7o=" alt="Caretaker and sister taking care of her middle aged brother who also suffers from autism." title="Caretaker and sister taking care of her middle aged brother who also suffers from autism." class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="null" data-positiony="null" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/2185442370/photo/caretaker-and-sister-taking-care-of-her-middle-aged-brother-who-also-suffers-from-autism.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=QMq4FYPzxX5lH8ANezVSq52nPq8VKzG7laIW4H9tF7o=" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;"></figure><h2> What Is the Future Unfiltered Listening Tour?</h2> This is not a workshop. It’s not a webinar. It’s not another information session where you get handed a confusing brochure and sent on your way.It’s an opportunity to talk.Aging parents and siblings need real solutions for long-term care, emergency Medicaid waivers, self-direction (PDS), and building a sustainable care team. But before solutions can be developed, I need to hear directly from you.Through a 1:1 conversation, you’ll have the space to share:✅ The biggest challenges you face in securing long-term care for your loved one ✅ What’s missing in Kentucky’s disability services that would actually help families ✅ What concerns, frustrations, and roadblocks are making planning so difficultThis is your chance to be heard and to shape the future of disability and aging services in Kentucky.<figure id="figure-qoj7wfkoljm6qwwd7m"><img id="qoj7wfkoljm6qwwd7m" src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/1313401220/photo/adult-man-portrait-with-a-down-syndrome-photo-series.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=aOoVe2d21PU3Y3_AQjcGa7JGPbz1gGCmEmPi1SJgA0s=" alt="Adult Man Portrait with a Down Syndrome Photo Series" title="Adult Man Portrait with a Down Syndrome Photo Series" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="null" data-positiony="null" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/1313401220/photo/adult-man-portrait-with-a-down-syndrome-photo-series.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=aOoVe2d21PU3Y3_AQjcGa7JGPbz1gGCmEmPi1SJgA0s=" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;"></figure><h2> Who This Is For?</h2> This listening tour is for families who are feeling the weight of planning for their loved one’s future. If you’ve ever asked yourself:What happens when I’m no longer here? How do I set my child up for success without me? Why is this system so hard to navigate? Where do I even start? You are not alone.This is for:🔹 Aging parents planning for their adult child’s future care and housing 🔹 Siblings stepping into caregiving roles and feeling unprepared 🔹 Families struggling with the SCL waiver, PDS, Medicaid, and caregiver recruitment 🔹 Anyone stuck in red tape and needing a clear path forward<figure id="figure-x0iitl5yc7m6qwwgue"><img id="x0iitl5yc7m6qwwgue" src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/1271113961/photo/mentally-disabled-woman-with-a-second-woman-and-a-companion-dog-concept-learning-by-animal.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=XEdQ2m0_v3porhKQDRTQw6L5AaIvclRIhvke77qTjvI=" alt="mentally disabled woman with a second woman and a companion dog, concept learning by animal assisted living" title="mentally disabled woman with a second woman and a companion dog, concept learning by animal assisted living" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="null" data-positiony="null" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/1271113961/photo/mentally-disabled-woman-with-a-second-woman-and-a-companion-dog-concept-learning-by-animal.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=XEdQ2m0_v3porhKQDRTQw6L5AaIvclRIhvke77qTjvI=" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;"></figure><h2> Why Now?</h2> Most families wait until a crisis to make a plan. But the reality is that waiting limits your options. The earlier you start, the better chance you have to secure care, funding, and a sustainable plan.For families in Kentucky, the Supports for Community Living (SCL) waiver can provide full-time care, for your loved one—but the approval process is complex.Did you know that accessing disability services doesn't mean your loved one has to move to a group home? You can use services help you loved one live their best life at home and control over who you pay to provide support, but too many families don’t know how to make it work for them. Caregiver recruitment is possible, but finding the right people feels exhausting.This listening tour is aimed at identifying the areas families struggle with and develop solutions to help that can be available as early as spring 2025!<figure id="figure-g2la0103ym6qwwkz6"><img id="g2la0103ym6qwwkz6" src="https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1464998857633-50e59fbf2fe6?crop=entropy&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;fit=max&amp;fm=jpg&amp;ixid=M3wyNjI5NjF8MHwxfHNlYXJjaHwxMnx8ZG93biUyMHN5bmRyb21lfGVufDB8fHx8MTcyNzgwODEyM3ww&amp;ixlib=rb-4.0.3&amp;q=80&amp;w=1080" alt="two man laughing at each other" title="two man laughing at each other" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="null" data-positiony="null" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1464998857633-50e59fbf2fe6?crop=entropy&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;fit=max&amp;fm=jpg&amp;ixid=M3wyNjI5NjF8MHwxfHNlYXJjaHwxMnx8ZG93biUyMHN5bmRyb21lfGVufDB8fHx8MTcyNzgwODEyM3ww&amp;ixlib=rb-4.0.3&amp;q=80&amp;w=1080" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;"></figure><h2> How to Join the Listening Tour:</h2> 📅 RSVP for your free 1:1 conversation: Pick a date and time that works for you 📍 Meet via Zoom or In Person (Northern Kentucky &amp; Louisville)&nbsp; 📩<a data-mce-href="https://tidycal.com/samanthaharrison/future-unfiltered" href="https://tidycal.com/samanthaharrison/future-unfiltered"> RSVP: Click Here&nbsp;</a>Your input matters. Your voice matters. And together, we can push for a system that actually supports the people it’s meant to serve.Let's talk. I’m listening.- Samantha&nbsp;

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