Planning for an Adult Child with Disabilities: Future Care, Housing & Support Options

Feb 07, 2025By Samantha Harrison

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How Do I Plan for My Adult Child with Disabilities?


Planning for an adult child with disabilities involves four key steps:

  1. Exploring Medicaid waivers for in-home care and support services.
  2. Choosing a housing option, whether in-home support, shared living,  an independent setup, a group home or other options. 
  3. Setting up financial protections, such as a special needs trust.
  4. Hiring and managing caregivers for long-term stability.


For parents and siblings of adults with disabilities, planning for the future can feel overwhelming.

Whether it's housing, Medicaid waivers, caregiver support, or long-term financial security, making the right choices requires clear guidance and a roadmap.

Step 1: Understanding Long-Term Care Options


Every family must decide how to structure care and independence for their adult child. Key questions to consider:

Should we apply for Medicaid waiver services or continue private pay support?


Is in-home care the best fit, or should we explore independent living options?


How do we ensure financial security with a special needs trust?

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Step 2: Exploring Medicaid & Waiver Services


Many families of older adults with disabilites have never used government-funded disability services, but Medicaid waivers provide key benefits for the future including:

Personal Care Services – Help with daily living activities
Respite Care – Giving family caregivers a break
In-Home Support – Hiring caregivers through Medicaid
Employment & Day Programs – Support for independent work and activities

If a Medicaid waiver isn't currently an option, there are many other programs and services that  can support your loved one. 

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Step 3: Choosing Housing & In-Home Care Options


Many families consider group homes, but other living arrangements may provide more autonomy and personalized support:

  • Building a Care Team – If your loved one rents or owns their home, or lives with you, you can build a care team to support them at home instead of a group home. 
  • Shared Living Arrangements – You can match people with disabilities for co-housing, or offering free or reduced rent to a caregiver in exchange for support. 
  • Supported Apartments – Renting or purchasing an accessible apartment with part-time paid caregiver support, and part time unpaid caregiver support.
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Step 4: Financial & Legal Planning


A special needs trust ensures long-term financial security while protecting eligibility for government benefits. Families should also explore:

Supported Decision-Making & Guardianship  – Choosing the right level of support

Special Needs Trusts – Protects assets while maintaining eligibility for Medicaid and SSI. 

Social Security Disability (SSDI) & Supplemental Security Income (SSI) – Maximizing benefits

ABLE Accounts – Tax-free savings accounts for disability-related expenses

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Get Expert Guidance on Options for Your Child's Future


Navigating care, housing, and financial decisions doesn’t have to be overwhelming.

With the right support, families can create a personalized plan that ensures a secure, fulfilling future for their loved one.

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