Life Support Is Failing: The Medicaid Crisis Already Affects Everyone You Know

May 14, 2025By Samantha Harrison

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šŸ†˜ 15,000+ Kentuckians with disabilities are on a waitlist for critical life support services.


The news is telling you Medicaid cuts are a good thing—that they’ll save money.

But here’s the result:

  • A teenager with autism loses their caregiver overnight. Now, mom can’t go to work.


  • A 74-year-old man with paralysis sits in his apartment for 12 hours with no help to use the bathroom. Now he’s in the ER with a pressure sore costing šŸ’øTHOUSANDSšŸ’ø in avoidable medical bills.

  • A young adult with a developmental disability is placed in a nursing home, costing šŸ’°MILLIONSšŸ’°more over their lifetime than if they were supported in their own home.


That’s the real cost.


 It doesn’t save money.  It shifts the burden to families until they break.


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What’s Being Lost Isn’t Luxury. It’s the Basics.


Right now in Kentucky, more than 15,000 people are stuck on waitlists or have recently lost the services they need just to get through the day:

🚪 Getting out of bed

šŸ³ Preparing a meal

šŸ› Bathing or toileting

šŸ’Š Taking medications

🧹 Keeping their home safe and livable

šŸš— Making it to doctor appointments

šŸ›ļø Grocery shopping or managing money



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What’s Really Happening Behind the Scenes:


šŸ§“ Nearly 4,000 seniors and adults with physical disabilities are waiting for home and community-based services, many living alone, without reliable care.

šŸ‘¶ Over 10,000 children and adults with intellectual and developmental disabilities (IDD) are on the waitlist, with an average wait time of 10 years.

šŸ  Around 4,000 adults with IDD need residential services, but most won’t qualify until a caregiver dies or there’s an emergency.

āš ļø Thousands of children with autism were placed on a waiver not designed for them and now they’re being cut off without warning, leaving families scrambling.

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Think Medicaid Cuts Don’t Affect You? Think Again.


You don’t have to be on Medicaid to feel the impact. The effects are already all around you:

šŸ’¼ Your employee quits because their child lost care, and now they have to stay home.

šŸ•’ Your doctor’s office, pharmacy, or mechanic has longer wait times because someone on their team is out indefinitely, caring for a parent.

šŸŖ Local businesses shorten hours or shut down because they can’t retain workers who’ve lost critical family support.

🚫 People are leaving the workforce for good, shrinking the tax base and leaving small businesses to carry the weight.

🧾 Your parent wants to age at home but services were cut, and now they’re being forced into a nursing home.

šŸ§‘ā€šŸ³ That favorite server or store clerk? They’re gone because their adult child’s waiver was reduced, and care collapsed.


These aren’t hypotheticals. These are daily realities across Kentucky and the nation. 


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What Families Are Facing Isn’t Sustainable


While the system delays, families are left to shoulder the full weight of care with no training, no guidance, and no safety net.

Right now in Kentucky, thousands of parents, siblings, and grandparents are:

šŸ‘©ā€āš•ļø Acting as full-time caregivers with no pay, no benefits, and no formal training

šŸ“‘ Managing complex Medicaid and hiring paperwork during hours they should be working or resting

šŸ  Navigating guardianship, housing, and medical needs alone without legal or case management support

šŸ” Rebuilding care teams after every resignation while still juggling jobs, kids, and their own health

āŒ Losing access to services they fought for years to get with no backup plan, no warning, and no compensation

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The emotional toll is real. But the financial toll is just as devastating:

šŸ’ø Parents leaving the workforce entirely

šŸ’ø Siblings draining retirement savings to pay for emergency care

šŸ’ø Out-of-pocket costs for home modifications, medical equipment, and backup staff

šŸ’ø Lost income, missed promotions, and career changes forced by caregiving

šŸ’ø Families stuck paying for crisis care that would have been preventable with basic support

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And when families are pushed to the edge, everyone feels the impact—from workforce shortages to lost productivity to increased demand on emergency services.

ā€œSamantha helped me avoid pitfalls and consolidate the various parts of the waiver application into a complete package. She saved me lots of time by being so knowledgeable about the work itself and the process involved. The support we received was worth far more than our investment.ā€
 ā€” A Mother

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 The Waitlist Is Long—But the Real Wait Is for a Crisis

People assume that once something serious happens, then help arrives.
 But here’s the truth:

Crises happen every day:

  • A parent has a stroke
  • A caregiver quits with no notice
  • A child ends up in the ER after months without support
  • A young adult is removed from school because of short staffing
  • A family is one missed paycheck from collapse

And still—no help. Most programs don’t have an emergency fast track.

 Even in a crisis, families are told: ā€œYou’re still on the waitlist.ā€

This isn’t a system of care.  It’s a system of delay, crisis, and damage control.

And damage control? Costs more.

šŸ’ø The ambulance ride
šŸ’ø The ER visit
šŸ’ø The lost income
šŸ’ø The caregiver burnout
šŸ’ø The missed early intervention that becomes a lifelong need


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You Deserve a Better Way


If you’re a family stuck in this mess, you’re not alone and you deserve better.

Here’s what real support looks like:

āœ”ļø Guidance on which waivers apply to your loved one and how to apply without burning out
 āœ”ļø Help finding out if there’s an emergency fast track for your situation
 āœ”ļø Support with hiring caregivers who actually stick around
 āœ”ļø Step-by-step clarity around housing, benefits, and legal decisions
 āœ”ļø A system that works even if something happens to you
 āœ”ļø A partner not just another brochure


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What That Looks Like in Real Life:


šŸ§“ For Aging Parents
 Build a plan for what happens when you can’t do it all anymore—so your loved one is supported, even if you can’t be there.

šŸ‘©ā€šŸ‘¦ For Siblings
 Step in without panic—get help with guardianship, benefits, routines, and the big picture.

šŸ§‘ā€šŸ« For Families After High School
 Turn the freefall after graduation into a structured, purpose-driven adult life.

šŸ‘©ā€šŸ’¼ For Families Hiring Caregivers
 Recruit, train, and retain good help—without the stress and trial-and-error.

ā³ For Families Still Waiting for a Waiver
 Make the most of the time in between—while setting up a system ready to go when services finally open.


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Get the Help You Deserve


This isn’t your fault. But it is your move.

If you’re ready for support that’s strategic, personalized, and built around what actually works. 

You don’t have to do it alone.

šŸ‘‰ Click here to take the first step.

Meet Samantha 


Samantha Harrison is a disability consultant with over 13 years of experience helping Kentucky families navigate Medicaid waivers, hire caregivers through Participant-Directed Services (PDS), and build care steams that actually work.

She’s on a mission to help families who are being left to manage complex systems alone—facing long waitlists, confusing rules, and impossible decisions without enough support. And with new Medicaid cuts looming, the stakes have never been higher.

Samantha offers hands-on, personalized support to help families get clear answers, take action, and create sustainable solutions—without getting lost in the red tape. If you’re ready for real help, you’re in the right place.

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